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Another legal question
From: fixrman
29 Aug 2014 15:17
To: koswix
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You know, if people weren't so shitty to each other we wouldn't need lawyers.
I feel your pain. I will probably have to soon take a guy to court who owes me a lot of money.
From: koswix
29 Aug 2014 17:24
To: ANT_THOMAS
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Plenty in employment law, not so much in family law
:-(
I still have a couple of aces up my sleeve but I'd be a complete bastard if I used them. Having a sit down on Wednesday to see if we can sort something out.
From: fixrman
29 Aug 2014 20:53
To: koswix
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Roll up your sleeves and play the aces - unless she prior agrees to be excluded from any and all proceeds from the sale of the flat due to not contributing for the time frame you mentioned. Get her to sign this agreement and have someone witness it. You can probably find something that fits somewhere on the 'net and make sure to include that the property was in negative equity when you split, that you paid to get out of that negative situation and have paid all monthly obligations since. Get her to sign that she did not contribute any monies from the time you split to present and that she agrees she is not now nor will ever be in the future entitled to any proceeds from your former union, in [real] property, possesions, finances or investments. Make sure it would be legally binding.
I am not a lawyer but I did litigate successfully a labor issue with helpful advice from a friend. I had no other representative with me but did well. The only difference between you and a lawyer is knowledge of the law. If you don't know it and are unwilling or unable to research yourself, get a lawyer. It is a vast undertaking but can be done.
Take it from someone who has been more than fair with another: they don't appreciate it and will turn on you in a heartbeat if they think they can profit. Do not convince yourself that "they will never do that", because they almost always do. I hate legal shit.
From: Ken (SHIELDSIT)
29 Aug 2014 22:28
To: fixrman
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Hey, I told you I was good for it!
From: fixrman
30 Aug 2014 15:26
To: Ken (SHIELDSIT)
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Talk is cheap!
From: Ken (SHIELDSIT)
30 Aug 2014 16:38
To: fixrman
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Would you be willing to accept donut in exchange?
From: fixrman
30 Aug 2014 18:23
To: Ken (SHIELDSIT)
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I'll gladly pay you Tuesday for a hamburger today.
Soory, kos. We are hijacking your thread. Come to any conclusions on what to do?
EDITED: 30 Aug 2014 18:24 by FIXRMAN
From: Ken (SHIELDSIT)
30 Aug 2014 18:30
To: fixrman
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We are, but only because I'm waiting to see if he wants me to come pick him up in the FREEDOM mobile!
From: fixrman
30 Aug 2014 20:20
To: Ken (SHIELDSIT)
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That's it, gives him a dose of American excess.
From: koswix
4 Sep 2014 10:43
To: ALL
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Gah.
So I've had to agree to giver her 20% of the equity. Not very impressed, but it would cost me that minimum to fight it in court. Still at least I should have a nice chunk of change left over.