It's a difficult one because of how bills can be split in a marriage. For example, I remember my dad handling the mortgage and a load of the bills and my mum paying for all the food, clothing, holidays, the car and everything else. Not sure how you stand legally, but it's not as clear cut for reasons such as this.
Yeah, I'm not disputing what was what while we were together (I paid a higher percentage of mortgage, but that was because I earned more. I'm fine with that, that's how things should be).
It's more the what's happened after we split. 5 years of mortgage payments on my own has been hard, I had to move into the tiny bedroom and take a lodger in for the big bedroom in order to make ends meet.
Whenever there have been financial issues (when I lost job etc) she's always been straight on the phone and it was never "what are WE going to do" it was always "how are YOU going to pay it?".
I'll be pretty pissed off if all my efforts to stay above water over the last five years are turned into lining her pockets.
Wow, didn't know that happened mate, sorry to hear it! No legal advice just a massive hug!
Yeah me either! I've put some FREEDOM in the mail for you!
We don't really hug in America, when we want to bond we shoot shit up. If you get screwed you can come stay with us.
Or he could just go round and shoot her. Problem sorted.
See, that's why you aren't allowed to have guns!
But I thought that's why you had guns.
You may be right, but we don't go around bragging about it! That's why they take your guns!
No, they have guns so they can shoot their instructors.
Oh it's old news wattsy, we've both moved on with our lives long ago. This is just sorting out the formalities. Thanks for the free hug, though!