I miss you guys

From: william (WILLIAMA)21 Apr 12:16
To: dyl 108 of 138
Any day you fancy. 1st of June?
From: Richy (GAJIT)22 Apr 15:00
To: ALL109 of 138
Well, gosh, this place is still here. (heart)

I pop in once every couple of years, I guess, when I randomly think of it.

I was curious to see what date I first registered here, but apparently that's not in my profile. Member #39 though, so that feels pretty early.

It's reassuringly nostalgic to see quite so many names I remember still posting, even if it is for the first time in years.

When was the last Meat?
From: Dan (HERMAND)23 Apr 13:00
To: Richy (GAJIT) 110 of 138
There was a London meet, that was quite well attended but it's going a good way back now - 10+ years, maybe even longer.

There's probably a thread!
From: milko23 Apr 15:24
To: Dan (HERMAND) 111 of 138
Aside from that, I suppose there's arguably been mini-meats here and there - I've had the pleasure of Kenny's company a few times lately and I think I saw a facebook update showing erm, two people from here, in Manchester recently? Oof my poor memory. But a mass attendance event has not happened in a good while.
From: Dan (HERMAND)23 Apr 16:14
To: milko 112 of 138
Yes, very true, I met Serg for dinner a couple of years back in London too. Oh, thinking about it, there was a York meet too - that was after London I think
EDITED: 23 Apr 16:14 by HERMAND
From: Peter (BOUGHTONP)23 Apr 20:46
To: Dan (HERMAND) 113 of 138
From a quick search I count at least five meats in the past ten years...

2024-04-03 msg:43024.1 Manchester Mini Meat
2020-01-20 msg:42105.1 Leeds mini-meat, Saturday 20ndsth Jan
2017-06-24 msg:41942.1 June Meat
2014-12-20 msg:41295.1 Saturday 20th December
2014-07-19 msg:41092.1 Teh Northern Meat - Summer 2014

None of those combine "London" and "well-attended", but I have photographic evidence of three that do, in Sep 2013, Sep 2010 and Dec 2008.

From: Dan (HERMAND)24 Apr 08:19
To: Peter (BOUGHTONP) 114 of 138
Oh I'm very out of touch then! I think that Northern Meat one was the last one I attended
EDITED: 24 Apr 08:20 by HERMAND
From: Peter (BOUGHTONP)24 Apr 14:53
To: Dan (HERMAND) 115 of 138
That was also probably the last one that had more than four people at. :(

We need a new big meat... one to celebrate reaching a quarter of a century, which we actually did last year if the dates in msg:34805.35 are correct.

From: milko24 Apr 18:29
To: ALL116 of 138
where's Fozza. He was always good at forcing people to do fun stuff, some kind of sales magic skill.
From: ANT_THOMAS28 Apr 20:03
To: ALL117 of 138
Last person I've seen from here is Mouse when he drove by where I was living and I happened to be doing some gardening in the front. These days we live relatively local to each other.
From: Drew (X3N0PH0N) 9 May 19:29
To: Linn (INDYLS) 118 of 138
I miss you all. This place was really special.

As William said, my mental health has been in a slow decline for a long time. Nothing new, still just the anxiety, panic and resultant agoraphobia. A couple of years back, though, my mum died and that sent it all off a cliff. Had a very rough couple of years. I'm levelling out again now though and that's *good*.

I'm still doing the same old stuff - chatting online, playing games, watching and reading stuff.

I think of the people from here frequently. You all had a huge, formative, impact on me and mean more to me than I can express. It was an amazing place to 'grow up' online, we were all incredibly lucky to have experienced it.

It also kinda ruined me for the modern web. Everything is so *disappointing* in comparison.

I do seek out places which capture some of those old internet vibes. I messed around with Gemini for a bit and I'm on Mastodon (and sporadically active - let's be friends if you're over there!). I've avoided the Facebooks and the Twitters and whatnot.

Spending most of my time when I'm not in voice chats watching/reading lefty political stuff and wondering whether, in the upcoming election, I'm going to not bother voting or cast a pointless vote for the Greens.

(hug)

 
From: Drew (X3N0PH0N) 9 May 19:36
To: Dan (HERMAND) 119 of 138
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I love how many people clearly poke their head in fairly often - just on the off chance the web has reverted 20 years.


Lovely way to put it. That's exactly how it feels  :') 
From: william (WILLIAMA) 9 May 20:47
To: Drew (X3N0PH0N) 120 of 138
I shall try to catch up with you on Mastadon although I become increasingly poor at managing complexity. I set up a Mastadon account a while back just for this reason.  Meanwhile, don't be a complete stranger here. There are a handful of things associated with this site that have changed my life. You're there in the mix. 
From: Drew (X3N0PH0N) 9 May 20:53
To: william (WILLIAMA) 121 of 138
Yeah, I'm going to try making logging in here part of my habits again.

And please do get in touch on Mastodon!

There's complexity and there's faff. Mastodon, much as I love a lot about it, does involve a fair bit of faff. 
From: Linn (INDYLS) 9 May 22:18
To: Drew (X3N0PH0N) 122 of 138
So many hugs to you Xen - i was so happy to see you had posted! I don't know what else to say except i hope you are more than ok and will post something again.

I just read through all the posts and I love that so may of you came back to reply. Back when, logging into TEH everyday to see what you all had to say that day was a part of my daily routine.

I know we can never go back, but its awesome that so many think we shared something pretty special.
EDITED: 9 May 22:19 by INDYLS
From: Drew (X3N0PH0N) 9 May 22:27
To: Linn (INDYLS) 123 of 138
I think the knowledge that we can never go back often stopped me from logging in when I thought of the place.

But that's okay, it can be whatever it is now!
From: Dave!!10 May 08:33
To: Drew (X3N0PH0N) 124 of 138
Yeah, it'll never regain the popularity it had in the 2000s, but it is good that it's still going and it's nice to see names from the past popping in here and there. Hello by the way :)
From: Dan (HERMAND)10 May 13:13
To: ALL125 of 138
I dunno if I'm happy or sad reading the posts above. Kind of feels like we all feel very similarly about modern internet, and modern communications.

Like many, I spent most of my day with Teh open - I remember some threads were basically realtime
From: Drew (X3N0PH0N)10 May 14:26
To: Dave!! Dan (HERMAND) 126 of 138
Hello! Nice to see you :)

And yeah, you nailed it there, Dan. I remember I'd make a post, refresh the thread list and have like three more things to answer. We had *discussions* here in a way that I've never found elsewhere. Chat apps come close but the asynchronicity of forums allowed for a bit of consideration. And unlike something like Twitter or Facebook it didn't feel like it was there for the whole world to see and rip apart. We could explore ideas safely.
EDITED: 10 May 14:27 by X3N0PH0N
From: milko11 May 22:45
To: Drew (X3N0PH0N) 127 of 138
also we could start doing silly side-things like GOFL without diluting the main dealio. Nowadays there's so many bloody things and so little time. I've got a Mastodon account somewhere but last time I tried I couldn't get back into it.

Hey man, I very briefly met your mum once and she was lovely, I'm so sorry for your loss. Wish you the best with everything.