I agree Wordpress is something of a nightmare.  I know nothing about coding for the web, but even a brief search for information on problems we had suggested that version and change control is a bit of a disaster especially in the various plugins. That may be unfair and it may all be firmly under control now, but there's a vast legacy of bugs and issues that simply isn't being addressed.

Unfortunately our installation is not OK and it's one of the reasons we've been losing members lately. Some of it is down to the way the admin set it up with key parts of the site such as blogs and critiques hidden away in unintuitive places and hard to navigate to. Some features are missing such as an easy way for members to chat both publicly and privately. There's a recaptcha thing for login, but she hasn't properly integrated it with the original login, so when people enter correct details on the webpage it bumps them to the recaptcha screen and counts the previous attempt as a fail. Then there are actual bugs. The admin installed a spam filter which was blocking every quoted URL as spam and even though it's disabled now, it seems to have made a permanent change somewhere. There's an activity stream which has a feature where after n number of posts, it hides a proportion and displays a "show all replies" button. Only it doesn't. It just hides the posts so the thread is screwed and meaningless. They are available if you dig into different activity views, but not as the nice ordered conversation they were supposed to be. This is the bug that has probably caused most annoyance. There are other bugs such as posts from a "private" group being sent to the "public" activity stream. Fortunately nothing embarrassing. But I'm hoping I can get some order back over the next few months.

It sounds all kinds of broken, and will probably be easier to start over with a clean install. I spend quite a bit of time persuading clients to not use WordPress (or any other CMS), because the baked-in limitations and problems far outweigh any supposed benefits. Yes it enables 'anyone' to get a website up and running, and start bolting on all kinds of crazy 'features' wily-nily. Therein lie the problems, and they are myriad and frequently unsolvable. For those who insist on forging ahead, I advise them to use the standard configuration without any customizations.

That's just about what I'm aiming at. It looks like it's been constructed without really thinking what the "customers" would expect/want, rather than being heavily customised, so I'm hopeful I can get it better if not perfect.

Some of the things will be easily fixable, such as the Recaptcha problem because that's a classic case of the admin not quite knowing what needed to be put in place before installing it. Others such as the vanishing posts may have been fixed in later releases as the first thing I noticed was how out of date a lot of it is. I'll just have to see how it goes.