Sorted.
I rebooted it at about 1am when no one was playing, think I must have launched it with the wrong shortcut (they're next to each other and I was tired, OK? :C ) :$
"Connection resest by peer: socket write error"
:|
I'll try restarting the server. Gimme a sec.
They are all evil.
As the server seems to be working fine for everyone else (by which I mean me and Caer), I'm choosing to believe it's your end and will stop fiddling now.
Just a thought, but have tried playing in Offline Mode (not single player, but not logging in to MC? I just had issues connecting, restarted Minecraft, couldn't log in to minecraft.net so did play offline and can connect to the server fine now :/ )
EDIT: never mind, i still can't log in :$