Mental health related terms to describe abnormal behaviour - Teh Forum

<body> <div id="header"> <span class="left"> <span class="back"><a href="lthread_list.php?webtag=DEFAULT"><span class="image mobile_back" title="Back"></span></a></span> <span class="image mobile_logo" title="Beehive Forum Logo"></span> </span> <ul> <li> <a class="reply_all" href="lpost.php?webtag=DEFAULT&reply_to=41033.0&return_msg=41033.16"> <span class="image mobile_reply_all"></span><span class="text">Reply to All</span> </a> </li> <li> <a class="navigation" href="#"> <span class="image mobile_navigation"></span><span class="text">Show messages</span> </a> </li> <li> <a class="main" href="#"><span class="image mobile_menu" title="Menu"></span> </a> </li> </ul> </div> <div class="menu main"> <ul> <li><a href="lthread_list.php?webtag=DEFAULT">Messages</a></li> <li><a href="lpm.php?webtag=DEFAULT">Inbox</a></li> <li><a href="lsearch.php?webtag=DEFAULT">Search</a></li> <li><a href="llogon.php?webtag=DEFAULT">Login</a></li> </ul> </div> <div class="menu navigation"><a href="lmessages.php?webtag=DEFAULT&msg=41033.1">1–10</a><a href="lmessages.php?webtag=DEFAULT&msg=41033.11">11–20</a><a href="lmessages.php?webtag=DEFAULT&msg=41033.21">21–24</a></div> <div id="page_content"> <h3 class="thread_title"><a href="index.php?webtag=DEFAULT&amp;msg=41033.16">Mental health related terms to describe abnormal behaviour</a> </h3> <div id="messages" data-navigation="41033_16_24_10"> <a name="a41033_16"></a><div class="message" id="message_41033_16"> <div class="message_header"> <div class="message_from"> From: Manthorp<span class="message_time">14 Apr 2014 21:25</span> <div class="clearer"></div> </div><div class="message_to">To: koswix <span><span class="image post_read" title="Read: 14 Apr 2014 22:16"></span></span> <span class="message_count">16 of 24</span><div class="clearer"></div> </div> </div> <div class="message_links"> <a href="lmessages.php?webtag=DEFAULT&msg=41033.16">41033.16</a> In reply to <a href="lmessages.php?webtag=DEFAULT&msg=41033.1">41033.1</a></div> <div class="message_body"> I voted 'yes', but was thinking both about the pejoratives associated with learning disabilities and those associated with mental illness. 'Mong', 'schizo', they're not cool.<div class="edit_text">EDITED: 14 Apr 2014 21:39 by MANTHORP</div> </div> <div class="message_footer"> <div class="message_footer_links"><a href="lpost.php?webtag=DEFAULT&reply_to=41033.16&return_msg=41033.16" class="reply"><span class="image post"></span>Reply</a></div> <div class="message_vote_form" data-msg="41033.16"> <span class="rating">0/0</span> <span class="image vote vote_down vote_down_off" title="Vote Down"></span> <span class="image vote vote_up vote_up_off" title="Vote Up"></span> </div> </div> </div><a name="a41033_17"></a><div class="message" id="message_41033_17"> <div class="message_header"> <div class="message_from"> From: fixrman<span class="message_time">14 Apr 2014 21:55</span> <div class="clearer"></div> </div><div class="message_to">To: koswix <span><span class="image post_read" title="Read: 14 Apr 2014 22:16"></span></span> <span class="message_count">17 of 24</span><div class="clearer"></div> </div> </div> <div class="message_links"> <a href="lmessages.php?webtag=DEFAULT&msg=41033.17">41033.17</a> In reply to <a href="lmessages.php?webtag=DEFAULT&msg=41033.2">41033.2</a></div> <div class="message_body"> Is it a bit like dealing with a blind person?<br /><br /><u>See</u> what I mean? <u>Look</u>, I don't want to... <u>Watch</u> for...<br /><br /> All things blind people can't do.<br /><br /> Used in the presence of someone with psychological disorders, I think some expressions (whacky, crazy, nuts, etc.) might just be overlooked as colloquial expressions unless of course the comments were directed at that person. But I don't know for sure.<br /><br /> Is is right to call a person with epilepsy an epileptic? No, because they are not usually defined by their condition. They have epilepsy.<br /><br /> My examples are not the same but I get what you are saying. Interesting, because people who suffer from nothing at all probably give no thought at all to those terms and more.<br /><br /> I'm sure we all have friends many would consider to be overweight. At what point is it OK then to talk about that fat so and so over there? Is it OK if our friend is at least not as heavy as the one being talked about? Does the fat comment bother them even if it is about someone else? I have been in that situation before and heard a comment made in the presence of a rotund individual and immediately looked at the person... Does that make me guilty as well?<br /><br /> I am not making light at all by making the fat comparison. If I in fact am overweight is it OK for me to make a "fat comparison"? It is a bit tricky, awkward, uncomfortable and insensitive at the same time.<br /> </div> <div class="message_footer"> <div class="message_footer_links"><a href="lpost.php?webtag=DEFAULT&reply_to=41033.17&return_msg=41033.16" class="reply"><span class="image post"></span>Reply</a></div> <div class="message_vote_form" data-msg="41033.17"> <span class="rating">0/0</span> <span class="image vote vote_down vote_down_off" title="Vote Down"></span> <span class="image vote vote_up vote_up_off" title="Vote Up"></span> </div> </div> </div><a name="a41033_18"></a><div class="message" id="message_41033_18"> <div class="message_header"> <div class="message_from"> From: Manthorp<span class="message_time">14 Apr 2014 22:00</span> <div class="clearer"></div> </div><div class="message_to">To: fixrman <span><span class="image post_read" title="Read: 14 Apr 2014 22:01"></span></span> <span class="message_count">18 of 24</span><div class="clearer"></div> </div> </div> <div class="message_links"> <a href="lmessages.php?webtag=DEFAULT&msg=41033.18">41033.18</a> In reply to <a href="lmessages.php?webtag=DEFAULT&msg=41033.16#a41033_17" target="_self">41033.17</a></div> <div class="message_body"> No, everything you say is right. As a broad and general principle it's best to acknowledge people's common humanity before one addresses the peculiarities of the shell they live in.</div> <div class="message_footer"> <div class="message_footer_links"><a href="lpost.php?webtag=DEFAULT&reply_to=41033.18&return_msg=41033.16" class="reply"><span class="image post"></span>Reply</a></div> <div class="message_vote_form" data-msg="41033.18"> <span class="rating">+1/1</span> <span class="image vote vote_down vote_down_off" title="Vote Down"></span> <span class="image vote vote_up vote_up_off" title="Vote Up"></span> </div> </div> </div><a name="a41033_19"></a><div class="message" id="message_41033_19"> <div class="message_header"> <div class="message_from"> From: koswix<span class="message_time">14 Apr 2014 22:19</span> <div class="clearer"></div> </div><div class="message_to">To: ALL<span class="message_count">19 of 24</span><div class="clearer"></div> </div> </div> <div class="message_links"> <a href="lmessages.php?webtag=DEFAULT&msg=41033.19">41033.19</a> In reply to <a href="lmessages.php?webtag=DEFAULT&msg=41033.16#a41033_17" target="_self">41033.17</a></div> <div class="message_body"> Going to try and find the original comment about this, but Facebook search is shit so it may take some time... </div> <div class="message_footer"> <div class="message_footer_links"><a href="lpost.php?webtag=DEFAULT&reply_to=41033.19&return_msg=41033.16" class="reply"><span class="image post"></span>Reply</a></div> <div class="message_vote_form" data-msg="41033.19"> <span class="rating">0/0</span> <span class="image vote vote_down vote_down_off" title="Vote Down"></span> <span class="image vote vote_up vote_up_off" title="Vote Up"></span> </div> </div> </div><a name="a41033_20"></a><div class="message" id="message_41033_20"> <div class="message_header"> <div class="message_from"> From: 99% of gargoyles look like (MR_BASTARD)<span class="message_time">15 Apr 2014 05:39</span> <div class="clearer"></div> </div><div class="message_to">To: Manthorp <span><span class="image post_read" title="Read: 15 Apr 2014 08:23"></span></span> <span class="message_count">20 of 24</span><div class="clearer"></div> </div> </div> <div class="message_links"> <a href="lmessages.php?webtag=DEFAULT&msg=41033.20">41033.20</a> In reply to <a href="lmessages.php?webtag=DEFAULT&msg=41033.16#a41033_18" target="_self">41033.18</a></div> <div class="message_body"> My humanity is anything but <em>common</em>, dahling!</div> <div class="message_footer"> <div class="message_footer_links"><a href="lpost.php?webtag=DEFAULT&reply_to=41033.20&return_msg=41033.16" class="reply"><span class="image post"></span>Reply</a></div> <div class="message_vote_form" data-msg="41033.20"> <span class="rating">0/0</span> <span class="image vote vote_down vote_down_off" title="Vote Down"></span> <span class="image vote vote_up vote_up_off" title="Vote Up"></span> </div> </div> </div><a name="a41033_21"></a><div class="message" id="message_41033_21"> <div class="message_header"> <div class="message_from"> From: patch<span class="message_time">15 Apr 2014 06:49</span> <div class="clearer"></div> </div><div class="message_to">To: Manthorp <span><span class="image post_read" title="Read: 15 Apr 2014 08:23"></span></span> <span class="message_count">21 of 24</span><div class="clearer"></div> </div> </div> <div class="message_links"> <a href="lmessages.php?webtag=DEFAULT&msg=41033.21">41033.21</a> In reply to <a href="lmessages.php?webtag=DEFAULT&msg=41033.16#a41033_18" target="_self">41033.18</a></div> <div class="message_body"> Although, strangely, if you're a policeman (or policewoman, let's not be sexist about this), it's the first thing that gets mentioned when you're being introduced to someone. No one ever thinks about how that feels. You bastards.</div> <div class="message_footer"> <div class="message_footer_links"><a href="lpost.php?webtag=DEFAULT&reply_to=41033.21&return_msg=41033.16" class="reply"><span class="image post"></span>Reply</a></div> <div class="message_vote_form" data-msg="41033.21"> <span class="rating">0/0</span> <span class="image vote vote_down vote_down_off" title="Vote Down"></span> <span class="image vote vote_up vote_up_off" title="Vote Up"></span> </div> </div> </div><a name="a41033_22"></a><div class="message" id="message_41033_22"> <div class="message_header"> <div class="message_from"> From: Monsoir (PILOTDAN)<span class="message_time">15 Apr 2014 07:11</span> <div class="clearer"></div> </div><div class="message_to">To: patch <span><span class="image post_read" title="Read: 15 Apr 2014 11:24"></span></span> <span class="message_count">22 of 24</span><div class="clearer"></div> </div> </div> <div class="message_links"> <a href="lmessages.php?webtag=DEFAULT&msg=41033.22">41033.22</a> In reply to <a href="lmessages.php?webtag=DEFAULT&msg=41033.16#a41033_21" target="_self">41033.21</a></div> <div class="message_body"> It's just a heads up - kind of like when you take a call from your best mate while on hands free with your wife in the car. "Hi mate, how you doing - you're on hands free, say hello honey"</div> <div class="message_footer"> <div class="message_footer_links"><a href="lpost.php?webtag=DEFAULT&reply_to=41033.22&return_msg=41033.16" class="reply"><span class="image post"></span>Reply</a></div> <div class="message_vote_form" data-msg="41033.22"> <span class="rating">0/0</span> <span class="image vote vote_down vote_down_off" title="Vote Down"></span> <span class="image vote vote_up vote_up_off" title="Vote Up"></span> </div> </div> </div><a name="a41033_23"></a><div class="message" id="message_41033_23"> <div class="message_header"> <div class="message_from"> From: JonCooper<span class="message_time">15 Apr 2014 22:19</span> <div class="clearer"></div> </div><div class="message_to">To: patch <span><span class="image post_read" title="Read: 16 Apr 2014 06:53"></span></span> <span class="message_count">23 of 24</span><div class="clearer"></div> </div> </div> <div class="message_links"> <a href="lmessages.php?webtag=DEFAULT&msg=41033.23">41033.23</a> In reply to <a href="lmessages.php?webtag=DEFAULT&msg=41033.16#a41033_21" target="_self">41033.21</a></div> <div class="message_body"> two of my sister's close friends are tax inspectors, that gets mentioned quite early in their introductions for the same reasons (so people don't accidentally incriminate themselves)</div> <div class="message_footer"> <div class="message_footer_links"><a href="lpost.php?webtag=DEFAULT&reply_to=41033.23&return_msg=41033.16" class="reply"><span class="image post"></span>Reply</a></div> <div class="message_vote_form" data-msg="41033.23"> <span class="rating">0/0</span> <span class="image vote vote_down vote_down_off" title="Vote Down"></span> <span class="image vote vote_up vote_up_off" title="Vote Up"></span> </div> </div> </div><div class="message"> Message 41033.24 was deleted</div> </div> </div> </body>